I read a lot of magazines, frequent a ton of "mom" blogs, watch mommy programs and have quite a few mom friends. I love to surround myself with different parenting philosophies because I feel it makes me more well-rounded and keeps me constantly questioning where I can improve. Despite the varying personalities with which I spend my time interacting, reading and watching, one phrase seems to make its appearance fairly consistently:
"Motherhood does not define me."
While I do respect these mothers and can certainly see their need for careers, hobbies and interests outside of motherhood, it started me thinking about whether or not I personally hold to this philosophy. My conclusion?
"Motherhood most certainly does define me."
Since becoming a mother, I have worked at a 9 to 5 job, I have volunteered for various positions and I have pursued my interest in writing. I enjoy having areas in my life that are solely for myself and my mind. Since beginning this blog, I feel it makes me a better mother by keeping me refreshed and fulfilled without taking away from my family.
Yet, when I write or when I headed into work each weekday morning or volunteered for a church project, I always have my children in the forefront of my mind. Whether I am just recalling something they did that day or considering a doctor's appointment I need to be sure to schedule around, I am always thinking of my children.
Being a mother has changed every part of me. It has completely redefined my existence. It has forced me to stay conscious 0f each word I speak or action I make since I always need to put my children's best interests first and that always begins with putting my best self forward.
When someone asks me about myself, no matter where I am in life, my response will always start with "I am a mother." It is the most amazing thing I have ever or will ever do with my life, so I am very proud to say that it will always define me.
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